THE HARSH REALITIES OF LIFE

How to start up and write about the comedies I see everyday is a tough task indeed. Everyone is in depression and everyone is living as if being old, weak , lost human beings. What has happened to us.

Well because bhai sahib (or behan ji)  we THINK. We think so many things and so many absurd things and so many negative things that we almost kill ourselves in our imagination.

As I can quote "we die everyday in our imagination while forgetting the real life which indeed could be awesome if we learn how to live".

Where is the fault??? Well the fault is we are astray, we have made our lives so much dependent on technology that I consider living without air is possible nowadays but not without INTERNET.I consider a person strong , even a superman or a batman if he can live without internet. But no we have that chrat chrat in life which wont go, we do early morning salam to Facebook first and then to our parents. We are bound to Facebook, WhatsApp, Facebook messenger, Gmail messenger, twitter, instagram than we are bound to our responsibilities. The fact is we are dependent on people on social networks so much that if we don't get a reply we feel life ended. The number of affairs a kid has nowadays is more than the number of words he knows and that's the fact as soon he/she enters the crèche the very chrat chrat of live starts.

We are awake all night, we rarely sleep, we call our friends and they have the same story to say that kya yaar life is hell. Family relationships are nowadays only about money, kids get money from parents and parents are busy earning it.We are so hopeless that even if we achieve what we want we will still say am still not happy. A human is never satisfied and he will never be.It is just like a hunger , a hunger of fame, wealth , money , status and all are running towards this world like a beggar.

We youngsters are facing challenges of proving our worth, people with higher degrees are sitting with bobas and people with sifarish are earning in thousands.We are living a life of hell, while our life should be simple we have made it complex, people fill your minds with so much negativity that if they say you are a loser we too feel a loser in ourselves .

I can only say STOP, STOP just STOP living a life of hell.

The world is not meant for the things we are doing right now, and it was not made for the happiness, it is a struggle and everyday adds a new struggle to your life. I say yes my life is mess but Alhamdulillah I am perfect in my own mess.

The first thing is stop complaining and be thankful to what you have, people are buried and wishing a moment on this earth and yet you are alive and still you are not doing anything.

Be brave to handle your life and no one else will ease it for you, know that even your parents leave you at times and that is life.

You be dependent on anything else ALLAH swt and He will show you how dependency will make you suffer. Wake early , read salah ,ask forgiveness, give time to your family and know your worth. Allah swt has made us so much precious that we are called ashraful makhluqaat. He made angels bow to us. Masha Allah and still everyday we are degrading ourselves so much that I feel ALLAH swt would be laughing at us. As Iqbal R.A quoted Farishton sae behtar hae insaan banna magar lagti hae usmay mahnat zyaada.

We have lost our morals, we have lost how to respect elders, we have lost the value of trust and relationships and we are all busy seeking haram and then we still say why we are not happy. It makes me laugh at times.

Contentment wont come through money, status or your achievements it will only come when you have such ikhlaq that ALLAH swt is pleased with you, and when you are so much engrossed in pleasing ALLAH swt that people don't matter to you.

I know one thing don't sell yourself for the wishes of people, ALLAH swt has made you beautiful , praise yourself every morning. Help people and seek those who need your help, listen less to the negative people around and say to them "you said it cant be done and now see how it is done".

Be your favourite and  know only you can understand your worth. Work hard and expect less even if you have thousands of failures don't let that be part of you quitting. Quitting is more dangerous than failures. You know how people are successful???

Because they never quit and they accepted failures, they too started from zero and that's the thing that needs to be realized. Leave all the things that are source of your sadness and seek those who make you happy and who know your worth.

Trust me this world aint easy but say to it TRY ME.