A
girl to be known…so meager and so subtle with myriads of dreams…
In
her own world she is a meek fairy and yet so a stubborn human…
Naive
and so flawless…she is a daddy princess
Brother’s
chum and mothers hope…she is a garland of regards
P.S
P.S
Its
wonderful to be a girl…Is it??
25 Jan 2011…my mind ran across my past to have
the glimpse of my life…and yet managed to recall it till I knew my existence
from 14 June 2 decades back…I have lived up the life being a girl from past two
decades and its being wonderful. Being held with humbleness and care and
regarded as a fairy with affection. “BEING A GIRL ”.Does that mean anything…Yea
it does..it means you have a different existence, responsibilities and yet a
different life…I have been living as if I didn’t thought it was different but now
I do feel the difference…Difference that I want to share and the differences I
want to amend..People I want your feedbacks in my this article…I need a voice
over this issue…Help me in a way…Tell me if my views are wrong or if they are
right. It’s an article about an issue and about the life of a girl in a
Kashmiri society…
Let me start up with a theme back past 30 years…a story of a girl…a girl considered to be a responsibility, a girl being provided less rights and then till she got married by her parents, a girl being trained and scrutinized ..After marriage a girl to be PROVEN, whether she could cook, or whether she could do household job well, cleaning paths,utencils,clothes and yet held up by the jibes of her in laws..DID THEY WANTED THE SERVENT OR DID THEY WANTED THEIR SONS WIFE??? What does ISLAM SAY:
The study of women in Islam investigates the role status of women within the religion of Islam. Sharia (Islamic law) provides for differences between women's and men's roles, rights, and obligations.A woman can do the households if she wishes but has not been addressed to do so.The obligatory is that she should be religious and that she must be well skilled to make her children to be pious.The fact still remains that she has to maintain a good life may that be pre marital or may that be post marital.From past few days I have been listening to many cases of girls being harrassed and tortured at very steps., whether they are highly educated girls in cities or whether they be the uneducated girls at villages.The cases came out as :
A girl who got selected for her MD in surgery being stopped by her inlaws because they thought it might lower the status of her MBBS husband. A lecturer being burned because she couldn’t fulfill her dowry requisition. A girl being stopped to persuade education outside.Though in cities we get all the facilities but does most of the girls get?What is happening and why is it happening? We have a society held up with a different ideology of being so reserved and yet being held up with interferances.We tend to make notions due others, filled with hatred, jealously and killing a person almost with the indirect talks. WHY DON’T WE LIVE AS SUCH THAT HAS BEEN PRESCRIBED IN ISLAM AND LET PEOPLE LIVE AS SUCH CONCENTRATING ON OUR OWN ISSUES? Why is living turning to be a hell?
You are being constantly told to guard your modesty, constantly put at views and then forbidden from most of the things like going outside for studying or planning to visit the places. You are being constantly reminded that you have to go to other house; you are constantly being told that you will be examined and then put to task. JUST LIKE THE LIFE OF A GIRL IS: READY STEADY GO. No doubt a view on activities is must; a parent must be well sure about their children not giving much liberty to their children as such. But shouldn’t these rules be applicable to boys as well? Why such restrictions on a GIRL.
The thing is I can’t judge up what is right, what’s wrong and if its right how much it is right. We are held up with many issues but the life of a girl is much so confusing and tiresome. Let me finish up this article to make you think about the life of girl and the different aspects she is held thereof. I am neither favoring nor opposing. My very this article is yet supposed to make you people just analyze. People give me your thoughts as well in the feedback…
Rightly awaiting….
Let me start up with a theme back past 30 years…a story of a girl…a girl considered to be a responsibility, a girl being provided less rights and then till she got married by her parents, a girl being trained and scrutinized ..After marriage a girl to be PROVEN, whether she could cook, or whether she could do household job well, cleaning paths,utencils,clothes and yet held up by the jibes of her in laws..DID THEY WANTED THE SERVENT OR DID THEY WANTED THEIR SONS WIFE??? What does ISLAM SAY:
The study of women in Islam investigates the role status of women within the religion of Islam. Sharia (Islamic law) provides for differences between women's and men's roles, rights, and obligations.A woman can do the households if she wishes but has not been addressed to do so.The obligatory is that she should be religious and that she must be well skilled to make her children to be pious.The fact still remains that she has to maintain a good life may that be pre marital or may that be post marital.From past few days I have been listening to many cases of girls being harrassed and tortured at very steps., whether they are highly educated girls in cities or whether they be the uneducated girls at villages.The cases came out as :
A girl who got selected for her MD in surgery being stopped by her inlaws because they thought it might lower the status of her MBBS husband. A lecturer being burned because she couldn’t fulfill her dowry requisition. A girl being stopped to persuade education outside.Though in cities we get all the facilities but does most of the girls get?What is happening and why is it happening? We have a society held up with a different ideology of being so reserved and yet being held up with interferances.We tend to make notions due others, filled with hatred, jealously and killing a person almost with the indirect talks. WHY DON’T WE LIVE AS SUCH THAT HAS BEEN PRESCRIBED IN ISLAM AND LET PEOPLE LIVE AS SUCH CONCENTRATING ON OUR OWN ISSUES? Why is living turning to be a hell?
You are being constantly told to guard your modesty, constantly put at views and then forbidden from most of the things like going outside for studying or planning to visit the places. You are being constantly reminded that you have to go to other house; you are constantly being told that you will be examined and then put to task. JUST LIKE THE LIFE OF A GIRL IS: READY STEADY GO. No doubt a view on activities is must; a parent must be well sure about their children not giving much liberty to their children as such. But shouldn’t these rules be applicable to boys as well? Why such restrictions on a GIRL.
The thing is I can’t judge up what is right, what’s wrong and if its right how much it is right. We are held up with many issues but the life of a girl is much so confusing and tiresome. Let me finish up this article to make you think about the life of girl and the different aspects she is held thereof. I am neither favoring nor opposing. My very this article is yet supposed to make you people just analyze. People give me your thoughts as well in the feedback…
Rightly awaiting….
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