OVERCOMING HOPELESSNESS

The greatest irony of life is that we loose "love" "people" "career" and we loose hope at times. The loss of hope being the greatest tragedy among all. From the life we always seek happiness and bliss , but then we have events and circumstances and people that take us back to despair. The biggest discouragements come from people , they say "you aren't in best of your career " "you don't have a job" "you aren't married yet" "you don't have a child" "you aren't pretty" "Just give up" "Just give up".

Well know that there are a billion people hungry today , a million will commit suicide this year ( one in 40 seconds ) , and their are millions of orphans, widows and divorced and yet there is no choice.

The world is the most hurtful place and its the love we seek most , love and admiration from parents and people around. Words can changes much , and it can either build you or destroy you.

The only option left is to have one thing and that is "FAITH". Here we seek a choice , the choice of which changes life. Either we can loose hope and quit or accept that whatever we have is enough for us and be thankful for that . Believing in what we cant see is the hope and know that "A SINGLE HOPE" and "A BELIEF IN YOURSELF" can change the way you are in right now.

Every human being has a value, and no one can value you like the way you set your value. In life "Money" , "Career" , "A big house"  isn't a success.

What if someone gives you 1 million dollars and by night you get to know your mother has died, will it still make you happy ?? No never. It is the love we seek and we crave more yet we devalue it more just to get along with this race of the world.

Everyday we have choices to see life, and to change it.

William Barkley said " There are two days in life that are important, the day you are born and the day you know why."

The truth is we all have a purpose , a reason , a reason to suffer and a reason to grow. That disappointments and failures will either make you strong or get you along a new direction. I know there are miracles everyday, for there is ALLAH and I have seen people who are blind getting their eyesight back, people who lost their loved ones getting new people to build the new recourse of their life, people who lost much still fighting and people recovering from the deadliest of diseases. Who brings strength in them ??? Who makes them move on ??? Who changes the circumstances ??? If not , they are real miracles which we don't see. Miracles do happen and you have to seek yours.

The wonder of this world is that nothing remains as such , time changes and so does the circumstances. When not even your body remains how could the problems you are facing be permanent ???

The things we most err including me

1. We worry more than we do to change them.

2. We seek happiness in others , yet don't seek them within ourselves.

3. We value people more than we value ourselves. Knowing that you are awesome in what you are is what changes a day.

4. We don't seek gratitude of the things we have but only whine about things we don't have.

5. We compare our lives and success with the people around and everyday we claim ourselves a failure with respect to someone.

6. We are slaves of our thoughts. Know that your brain is the biggest cage you are in and the thoughts are what keeps you enslaved to it. Though we can't control our thoughts but surely we can control how to react to them , know if thoughts say " you cant " just change your reaction " Let me try , there is a hope"

7. We don't believe in miracles, yet life is full of miracles , and they do happen if you believe.

When life is getting you down,
And you need a little hope.
Just look deep down inside yourself,
And you'll find the way to cope.

When life is getting you down,
And you need a little love.
Go to the person whom you are the closest,
As the rest they are above.

When life is getting you down,
Don't allow it so.
Change the way you think of life,
And life will be better, you know.

When life is getting you down,
 Take time to pray

ALLAH will send His miracles and make your day :)

Well about me I am just waiting for my MIRACLE :) In sha ALLAH