GREATER RISKS OF LIFE

The age of twenties and ahead does gives a new perspective of life.From being a dependent child we turn to an independent person.
We start leaving colleges...Check
We start looking for jobs.....Check
We start finding partners...Check
We become emotional....Check
We turn our decisions more than our Parents...Check
We see the best and the worst...Check
We get depressed....Check
In this life we fall in many pits and trapes,we indulge in late night movies,novels,chatting,gossips and being eager to earn money.
The first trap we see is

1. We start being emotionally dependent:

The first trap in which we post teenagers fall is that we start looking for our happiness in being in relationship or being with a person who we start to adore.We are happy when we talk with them,we feel proud when we get the concern from them,we get praised and the world seems bright.This starts the process of being trapped, unknowingly we get in these things slowly and it weakens us.Soon the concept of their being away comes to our mind and we get paranoid.Sometimes it may turn even more worse if the person becomes deceptive.It can thus hamper the time as well the modesty we care about.

The DO's :

We people should never give any person the authority to rule,everyone is a friend and everyone is same.Parents are our resources and we must be nearer to them than any stranger.

The second trap we see is

2.We have the urge to make money and the urge to compete and leave behind our friends:

It is the next mistake we people make in this age,we want to see financial stability and thus we have the urge to make money.It turns to be good but sometimes being so much in the money business sometimes takes away the resources and then we lose the time we must have used to gain higher and better.

The DO's:

We must not be jealous of anyone.Just because people are progressing and you are not doesn't mean your time wont come.One must better use the time and resources in the good job and good prospectus and thus wait for the correct time.

The third trap we see is

3.Being unconcerned of parents:

In this age we feel we are free birds and  that we could do anything.We don't fear parents and their concern least comes.We forget the care and thus start to take them for granted.

The Do's:

We must not forget the time,money and the work they did for us in our upbringing.They brought us in this world,they gave us what we needed, they showed us the way.We must respect and care for them even when our dependency on them decreases.

The fourth trap is

4.Being nonreligious

This is main bad habit we get in this age.We see religion as an act which we could do in the later stage of life.We forget death and think life is eternal.We don't want to see what after death we will feel...

The Do's:

We must not forget our origin and our end.Every soul will have to face the death (Al-Quran).We must be religiously good so that our life in here and in hereafter is blessed...